Oct 19 2009

10 Things I am Grateful For

Published by Drama Mama at 10:14 pm under General Suckitude,Life,Life Sucks,Ooops Moments

Right now I need to do this…my sanity depends on it.

I need to reflect on some good things, big and small that make for a good life; cuz today was a bit on the crappy side. This morning my vacuum cleaner started shooting fireworks, then just decided to shut off – which I guess is preferable to bursting into flames. Later, while outside raking leaves, the leaf blower started to melt its cord. The icing on the cake occurred when my main computer flipped the heck out and crashed beyond anything my beloved nerdy husband has seen before. Oh, and we found another stray hornet flying around the house, a renegade of the nest we know to be hiding in our wall, and which we paid $200 to destroy last week. And did I mention one of my tires has a slow leak? That’s one mystery I can’t wait to solve.

So, at the end of this day of awesomeness, I need to recall some of the more pleasant things in life – to remind me that all is not fried appliances, crapped out hard drives, and hornets from hell.

10. My treadmill still works – some days I fear it is ready to blow up, but I manage to log 4 or so miles on it faithfully most days, and hope to continue to do so. For that matter, I am grateful to have two healthy legs to walk and run and a strong back that doesn’t ache too much.

9. I have a netbook. So even though my “real” computer is out of commision, I still have access to e-mail and the internet, and that staves off the panic.

8. I’m lounging on the couch drinking cold Belgian Beer with the husband. It’s nice to spend the evening like this, even if he’s just channel surfing and I’m blogging.

7. We finally have had a run of nice fall weather. This weekend was warm (and dry) enough for a trip to one of my favorite pumpkin farms, it made for a fun time at our annual Halloween party, and we got to spend a few hours at a local theme park – enjoying the  season before it’s gone. Today was Gorgeous – perfect fall weather  – the girls and I took a break from the schoolwork to run around outside (I raked leaves so I could pretend I was hard at work).

6. I finally managed to clean out my car today. It no longer looks like a homeless shelter. While we’re at it, I am grateful I have a home, and do not have to live in my car or stay at a homeless shelter.

5. After a few weeks of horrendous behavior and a long talk last night, Miss A is really working on trying to do better with controlling her temper, cutting back on the whining, doing her homeschool without arguing, and generally being a “good kid.”

4. I don’t have to work tomorrow. (Well, if you don’t count housework, parenting, and teaching homeschool work).

3. Both my children may have runny noses, but overall are very healthy. I am blessed in so many ways with my girls.

2.  I am going on a weekend getaway soon – just me and some girlfriends. I am grateful for the break from the everyday, I am thankful I have a husband who will take care of things at home so I can go, and I am excited for the chance to have some true, genuine ME time.

1. My birthday is approaching…yes, I am getting older, but it’s still a long way til 40, and I am not ashamed to admit how much I adore presents.

Aaaaah…I do feel better…not as good as a pedicure and a massage would have made me feel – but certainly better than I did a few hours ago while trying to lure a hornet into my garbage disposal.

9 responses so far

9 Responses to “10 Things I am Grateful For”

  1. Becca Janeon 19 Oct 2009 at 10:52 pm

    Hey i am an artist who is thinking about the myths of the American west and read a comment you left on “smart bitches trashy books” that said “I chose the American West and as it happens, wrote my final thesis on the cowboy sub-genre of modern romance novels.” I was interested in reading your thesis if you felt up to share? or if you have any sections you think I might be interested in relation to western myths and the projection of desire on to this landscape. sorry to leave such a long comment more appropriate to an email but i was unable to find an address for you. Thank you for your time.
    Becca Jane
    beccarube@yahoo.com
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  2. Jenn D.on 20 Oct 2009 at 10:07 am

    Thanks for the smile Melonie! =) =) Awesome that you will have a girls weekend!!

  3. Drama Mamaon 20 Oct 2009 at 3:03 pm

    Hey Becca – wow, that thesis was like 10 years ago! But it was fun to write (and research). I sent you an e-mail :)

  4. Sharon Jon 26 Oct 2009 at 8:53 pm

    Sorry for the icko-yukko. It’s nice to have things to be thankful for, though. And btw, 40 is not, I repeat NOT! a death sentence, by any stretch. BTDT. :-D
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  5. Drama Mamaon 26 Oct 2009 at 9:37 pm

    Ha Sharon! I know 40 won’t be so bad, I’ll just start complaining about 50 instead ;)

    The good news is the husband fixed the vacuum cleaner and put a new hard drive in my computer (we have to re-install EVERYTHING – a PITA so big it makes my head throb) and it appears I did not lose any data. Turns out my tire just had a leaky valve and since I bought it from Pep Boys less than a year ago so they fixed it for free. So just a week later life isn’t quite so crappy.

  6. Bella Sinclairon 02 Nov 2009 at 1:57 am

    Well, I’m glad to read that some things, at least, were repairable. Still, it’s nice to exhale and consider all the things we are blessed with that we don’t acknowledge every day. Life is good.

    Life with a few Girls’ Weekends is even better. ;)

    Love is my compass…. what a beautiful saying. Thanks for sharing it!

    ps. LOVED that bottle label. HA!

  7. Drama Mamaon 02 Nov 2009 at 8:29 am

    Hi Bella! Always a treat when you stop by:)

    I found the “Love is my compass” quote on YOUR site – it’s in the words on one of the awards you just posted recently, and I liked it so much I had to say something about it in my reply.
    It is a great thought, isn’t it? Simple and true, which makes it perfect.

    Those labels are awesome, aren’t they? They look even better once you print them on some cardstock! I was amazed.

  8. angelon 02 Nov 2009 at 10:55 am

    Melonie,
    Your awesome!! I was having a crappy day and just reading that made my day a whole lot better!! So thank u for your awesomness

  9. Drama Mamaon 02 Nov 2009 at 4:02 pm

    Angel, so happy my misery made god company for you and cheered you up a bit. Anytime ;)